damn it's facebook !

nowadays Facebook is common among teenagers and all people. is seem to be as a new trend in the world since it being introduce in year 2004 by Mark Zuckerberg. when it first being introduce, there are 1 MILLION people have create an account with Facebook. WHAT A ENORMOUS NUMBER for a beginner! by the end of year 2012 there are 400 million people join Facebook. we can not deny that Facebook is a good socialize medium nowadays. within the first year of Facebook, they have enlarge their web not only at Harvard but also to Stanford, Columbia, Yale, Palo, Alto, and California. what a rapid growing.

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 a report from Salt Lake City (ABC 4 NEWS) they expected that by the end of 2011 there will be more and more people sign in Facebook account. but their expectation is wrong. there are more and more people SAID ENOUGH ENOUGH to Facebook.~Quitting Facebook~ even though that Facebook can connect us with our friends and family with their unique features. well here are some of the news extract. click on this link ^_^,QUITTING FACEBOOK

QUESTION ! why they quit Facebook while other sign in Facebook? the major reasons is Facebook is addicted. people spend hours of their time in room facing computer and ignore people in their surrounding. other reasons is Facebook ruin relationships but it cannot be deny that there some people found their true love through Facebook.

Facebook do ruin relationship

spending hours in front of computer

people tend to forget their job as a human being when they face Facebook. they enjoy with the virtual life. chatting and playing games. not to forget what have being shown in the video, students quit Facebook because it have derive them in putting back their homework and most of it don't even make a revision on their study. SO STUDENTS, FOCUS STUDY LESS FACEBOOK 

happiness for everyone

quote from, happiness is a mental state of well-being characterized by positive or pleasant emotions ranging from contentment to intense joy. happiness can be view from different perspective which is religion, economic, scientific and philosophy. the degree of happiness is different form each of us. it depends on what have we being trough and what state of us. 
not all the time we are in a happy mood. life is balance there will be happiness there also a sadness. a happy mood could bring a good benefit toward your self. a happy mood is nothing to be with a  good materiel or high achievement, it seems to whittle down to your outlook on life, and the quality of your relationships with the people around you. 
there are way to achieve a happy mood and to be happy in your life. 
1. be optimistic.
~each of us have a baseline level of happiness . no matter what happens, we need to know that the happiness that we achieve will not last. it just a temporary of happiness. that does not mean that you would not get any other happiness. some have a high baseline level of happiness.only improving your attitude towards life will increase your happiness permanently. 


2. follow you guts
follow your guts and your instinct. that going make you happy. stop from listening other order. be your self and do what make you happy. on the other hand is does not mean that you should not hear to others opinions. never regret with you decision you have made and pick what you feel right. do hear to other opinion in making the decision. STOP HESITATING 



3. make enough money
by making money you will be happy. nowadays money is everything but money cannot buy happiness. Once you make enough money to support your basic needs, your happiness is not significantly affected by how much money you make, but by your level of optimism.   


4. stay close to your family and friend

nothing can make us happy than our own family and friends, by stay close and keep in touch. talk, stay close, visit, holiday and activities are some plan that you can do to make your self happy whenever with family and friends.


5. find happiness in the job you have now
feel happy with job you are doing now. don't ever stress your self with the work. make a positive view on the work. who know when you have the positive view you'll be promoted. see on the other side of it you'll make enough money ^_^


6. smile
smile will always the best way to make people calm. smile always won't make you stress. Science suggests that when you smile, whether you feel happy or not, your mood will be elevated 


7. forgive
 In a study of college students, it was found that an attitude of forgiveness contributed to better cardiovascular health. You could say that forgiveness literally heals your heart. While it is unknown how forgiveness directly affects your heart, the study suggests that it may lower the perception of stress. 


these are some steps in making a different degree of happiness. each day you'll receive a different level of happiness. LIVE A HAPPY LIFE DUDE   \(^_^)/

again -,- it is all about mind..

each of us in this world is a thinker, which live in a state of apparent separateness. in a world that full with complex problem and conflict which make a fragmentation of the mind. our mind is a unique creation ever. which it derive us in thousand of feeling and emotion like love, hate , joy and sorrow. 

why do Eckhart Tolle say "the simple reasons why majority of scientists are not creative is not because they don't know how to think but they do not know how to stop thinking" even though we are not scientists,the statement can be relate to us. but are we not creative just because we don't stop thinking? does we based on logic only and not empathy?  and on each of our days, have we ever stop thinking? question by question linger  around this mind. we as a human being never going escape with thinking. we think every moment in our life.

there is not such think as a folly thinker. a quote from Eckhart Tolle "there is clearly that intelligence at work is far greater than the mind" lets question here, where come the intelligence without thinking? see. Eckhart seem to denying the truth brain power that derive all the intelligence is came from thinking ! 
you, me, us, we and all of us start to imagine and from that we can lead our life to the road given. our state of mind never control us. we never be mind slave because we are the one who control our mind.